Hello, My Name Is Doris (2015) [Blu-ray]
Comedy | Drama | Romance
After a lifetime of being overlooked and ignored, a woman of a certain age finds her world turned upside down by a handsome new co-worker and a self-help seminar that inspires her to take a chance on love in Hello, My Name is Doris, a witty and
compassionate late-life coming-of-age-story.
Storyline: A self-help seminar inspires a sixty-something woman to romantically pursue her younger co-worker.
Reviewer's Note: Reviewed by Martin Liebman, June 29, 2016 If age is just a numerical value along the course of one's existence, then love seems to be something that transcends age, something that's woven into the very fabric of
existence, that pays no attention to the little things like the cosmic ebbs and flows that define time and one's fleeting existence in it. Hello, My Name Is Doris explores the concept of love -- perhaps better said infatuation -- through the eyes
of a woman whose time has all but passed her by. It's also a movie about the fine line between living in the past and moving on from it. That all makes Director Michael Showalter's (writer, Wet Hot American Summer) film one steeped in ideas of time
and how the title character sees the world through the prism of her own accumulated life experiences -- one could even say physically manifested in her 60s-inspired "cat" eyeglasses -- versus how life is when it's presented directly in front of her face,
when she finds she has no choice but to saturate herself in an alien world, to free herself from the bonds of her past in an effort to reconnect with the more spry, full-of-life version from it.
Doris (Sally Field) is a New York office drone whose time has passed her by. She's stuck in a bygone era. It's easy to see. Her clothes, her eyeglasses, and her mannerisms all scream "it's not my time anymore." It's a young person's world, and she's
somehow slipped through the cracks and finds herself forced to work from the (comfort? discomfort?) of a "Posture Ball" rather than an office chair, surrounded by a cadre of co-workers who, to her, may as well be from Mars. It's a minor miracle that she
can even handle the office computer. She lives with her mother, or at least she did. Her mother recently passed away, leaving behind her cat, her home, and all the junk inside of it, junk that Doris treasures. Her psychiatrist and family want her to move
on, but she's not ready. One day, a good looking new co-worker named John (Max Greenfield), fresh from the west coast, arrives in the office. She could probably be his grandmother, but she's smitten. Big time. Combine the excitement of a handsome new face
with a newfound confidence following attendance at a motivational speech, and she's ready to turn back her clock by leaping into the 21st century and, she hopes, into John's arms. But can she exist in his world, and if the impossible were to happen, he in
hers?
Hello, My Name Is Doris unquestionably looks a bit goofy on the surface. The story of an aged pack-rat cat lady, who has never moved out of her mother's house, smitten like a teenager and falling head over heels for a guy a good thirty or so years
her junior seems like the stuff of cheap romance novel whimsy or indeed, as the movie shows a few times, wild flights of imaginative fancy that sound good and play out perfectly in the head but have about as much of a chance of happening in real life as
striking a mega-millions lottery. Back-to-back. The movie follows Doris as she, with a little help from people who think it's "cute" that's she obsessive and borderline psycho about a boy who was born when she was nearing middle age, plays a game of 21st
century mental and physical gymnastics -- a little cyber stalking, an effort to recondition her tastes to match his -- in an effort to get close to her would-be boy toy and live the dream. But she soon finds out, or perhaps better said rediscovers,
outside of her self-made bubble of would-be pleasure, that life is far more complicated than that, and that her age is, really, the least of her problems and one of the lesser reasons why the relationship is a long shot.
But the movie is much more than a peek into the mind of a woman whose life is quickly passing her by and whose mind churns out one more good fantastical yarn that hearkens back probably more than four decades to a time when she had her whole life in front
of her rather than the vast majority of it behind her. The movie's subplot involves her therapist and family trying to make her move on with her life, to surrender her obsession with hoarding the past -- physical goods to be sure but, a little less
obvious, mentally and emotionally as well -- and spend the last years of her life moving forward rather than stalling in a broken reverse gear. The film's overreaching themes extend through both narratives. They deal with ideas of coping with reality,
accepting life's truths (including the passage of time), and not surrendering to the world or even accepting all of its change but, at the very least, moving forward with it in one's own way rather than hoping for the miracle that's never going to come.
It's very neat and tidy, finely, but obviously, entwined in the movie's DNA. It's a fascinating picture on many levels that's very well done not only narratively, but technically, too.
Sally Field is masterful in the lead. The two-time Oscar winner nails the part's complexities, whether her dogged stubbornness in her ways -- particularly in hanging onto the past as it's physically manifested in her mother's overstuffed home -- or her
sudden burst of youthful, teenage exuberance when the lady goes gaga over John. Her ability to carry the look of someone stuck in the past while exuding a bubbly excitement over the prospect of rekindling her life is a sight to behold; few actresses could
blend so much cheer, vulnerability, and deeply held anguish as well as Field. She shares excellent screen chemistry with co-star Max Greenfield who plays the part like his John is on top of the world. His relationship with Doris is very well defined, in
the uneasy first cycle of their relationship; the more fluid, fun, and in some ways suggestive middle stretch; and how they handle the realities that manifest in the film's third act.
Hello, My Name Is Doris is a pleasant little movie that finds the right balance between tender and humorous as it explores the timeless subject of life through what time one has. Its message is simple, its themes complex, its nature cheerful, its
purpose substantial, and its characters well drawn and detailed. It's a movie that's easy to fall in love with at any age. Sony's Blu-ray is peppy, too, featuring quality video and audio to go along with an audio commentary track and plenty of deleted
scenes to enjoy. Recommended.
[CSW] -1.4- If you do not see this totally as a comedy you will probably not like. I didn't and I did (not like it). The acting was good especially Sally Fields (Doris) but the ridiculousness of the script/plot if not completely viewed as comedic could
not be overcome no matter how good the acting. It had a few good moments, usually with Tyne Daly (Roz), but overall I felt a sense of angst instead of one of humor. No disrespect to Sally Fields because she did a beautiful job, but the plot/script made
her seem a bit creepy.
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